Henrik J. Klijn

Couple with shared goals

All, Dating

Shared Goals Over Shared Playlists

Too often, people mistake surface-level chemistry for a deep connection, only to realize they’re misaligned where it matters months later ... Read On

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The Timing Dilemma

When should you ask for the second date? Move too fast, and you risk appearing overeager. Wait too long, and the connection fades. What's the right play? ... Read On

Couple having dinner

All, Food - Travel

See and Be Seen

From Mexico City to Cape Town, these top-tier restaurants deliver unforgettable vibes, impeccable menus, and an air of exclusivity for a first date ... Read On

Couple holding hands who were willing to discuss the future on a first date

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Futureproof Dating

There’s a delicate element to early dating conversations. When is it too soon to talk about the future on a first date, and how do you do it properly? ... Read On

Couple experiencing a breakup

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Ghosting Is Outdated

Dating in 2025 has enough uncertainties without adding ghosting to the mix. Once seen as a convenient escape route, ghosting is tired, lazy, and, outdated ... Read On

Couple on a First Date

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How to Spot Real Interest (Without Overthinking)

Reading someone’s true intentions can feel like decoding a lost language. By focusing on subtle signs, you can do so with confidence and zero overthinking ... Read On

Couple dancing together at home

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In Defense of Slow Dating

Unlike swipe-based apps, slow dating is about depth and intention, encouraging trading quantity for quality—a counter-movement attuned to our busy lives ... Read On

Couple in the Forest

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Dating Online and Realness

As any seasoned dater will affirm, presenting an honest, relatable version of yourself is not just a moral best practice but a distinct strategic advantage ... Read On

Couple drinking cocktails on a first date

All, Food - Local, Places

How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic

A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries ... Read On