Henrik J. Klijn

Couple in the Forest

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Dating Online and Realness

As any seasoned dater will affirm, presenting an honest, relatable version of yourself is not just a moral best practice but a distinct strategic advantage ... Read On

Couple drinking cocktails on a first date

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How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic

A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries ... Read On

Couple on coffee date

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Micro-Mancing: The New Dating Trend 

Micro-mancing, an expected 2025 trend, is dating at a smaller, more digestible scale—a response to the overwhelming vastness of modern dating culture. ... Read On

Couple in a successful relationship after a bad first date

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From Fumble to Fun

The awkward silences, spilled drinks, ill-timed jokes...but what if I told you that a date gone sideways may become the foundation for something profound ... Read On

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Navigating Holiday Dating Dilemmas

When navigating the early stages of a relationship, introducing a significant other to the family during the holidays may feel like walking a tightrope ... Read On

Couple on Golf Course

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The Art of Throning

"Throning," as dubbed by the zeitgeist-defining Gen Z, is not merely a fad—it's a seismic shift in how the socially ambitious approach dating ... Read On

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Beyond Butterflies

Few experiences elicit quite as much trepidation as a first date, yet it's possible to transform the first-date experience to one of genuine excitement ... Read On

Chicago's Grand Holiday Tradition Thanksgiving Day Parade

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Harvest of Hearts

It's a holiday steeped in tradition, family, and the comforts of home—hardly the conventional backdrop for budding romance. Yet, for the intrepid and the epicurean, Thanksgiving presents a unique opportunity to forge connections over shared plates and cultural rituals ... Read On

Couple tango dancing on a first date

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Extraordinary First Dates

A first date should be more than a polite conversation over a plate. It should be a memorable moment that invites curiosity and shared appreciation ... Read On