A dating journal for the curious, FirstDate is a resource for those in pursuit of extraordinary connections. Because first dates should be easy. And fun.

Couple experiencing a breakup

All, Dating

Ghosting Is Outdated

Dating in 2025 has enough uncertainties without adding ghosting to the mix. Once seen as a convenient escape route, ghosting is tired, lazy, and, outdated … Read On

Couple on a First Date

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How to Spot Real Interest (Without Overthinking)

Reading someone’s true intentions can feel like decoding a lost language. By focusing on subtle signs, you can do so with confidence and zero overthinking … Read On

Couple dancing together at home

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In Defense of Slow Dating

Unlike swipe-based apps, slow dating is about depth and intention, encouraging trading quantity for quality—a counter-movement attuned to our busy lives … Read On

Couple in the Forest

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Dating Online and Realness

As any seasoned dater will affirm, presenting an honest, relatable version of yourself is not just a moral best practice but a distinct strategic advantage … Read On

Couple drinking cocktails on a first date

All, Food – Local, Places

How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic

A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On

Couple on coffee date

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Micro-Mancing: The New Dating Trend 

Micro-mancing, an expected 2025 trend, is dating at a smaller, more digestible scale—a response to the overwhelming vastness of modern dating culture. … Read On

Couple in a successful relationship after a bad first date

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From Fumble to Fun

The awkward silences, spilled drinks, ill-timed jokes…but what if I told you that a date gone sideways may become the foundation for something profound … Read On

Couple standing outside a house

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Navigating Holiday Dating Dilemmas

When navigating the early stages of a relationship, introducing a significant other to the family during the holidays may feel like walking a tightrope … Read On

Couple dressed in white

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It’s a Mind Thing

Beneath the surface of shy smiles and nervous laughter on a first date, there’s a more profound force at play—psychological factors that subtly guide you … Read On

ABOUT

FirstDate stands out from other dating journals by focusing on journeys of self-discovery and reflection rather than merely recording dates. It encourages users to engage with their experiences, fostering a unique blend of introspection and curiosity about their romantic lives. 

Exploring the myriad wonders—and potential pitfalls—of the initial dating encounter including social activities, travel, culture, and other interesting topics, FirstDate celebrates successful connections and quality of life. FirstDate is a leading dating lifestyle authority with a dynamic mix of content and connects a global community of professionals from New York to New Delhi.

JOURNAL

Editor: Henrik J. Klijn

Art Direction: Julianna Lacoste

Art Direction: Susie Ramirez

Content Manager: Brett W. Campbell

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NEW JOURNALS ON FOOD

All, Food – Local, Places

How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic

A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On

Couple drinking cocktails on a first date

All, Food – Local, Places

Dream On: Dinner Date Puerto Vallarta

Forget run-of-the-mill tacos and margaritas—we’re embarking on a gastronomic journey into the crème de la crème of the local Puerto Vallarta dating scene … Read On

Couple Dining Overlooking the Ocean

All, Dating, Food – Local

The Guerrilla Picnic Invasion

For first dates, a fine line exists between the memorable and the mundane. The guerrilla picnic is the perfect compromise of creativity and spontaneity … Read On

Picnic Spread on the Grass

All, Food – Travel

Yes, Chef!

For an unforgettable first date, the cooking class scene offers a gastronomic gladiatorial arena where culinary prowess becomes an ultimate aphrodisiac … Read On

Gourmet Dish Perfectly Plated