A dating journal for the curious, FirstDate is a resource for those in pursuit of extraordinary connections. Because first dates should be easy. And fun.
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Ghosting Is Outdated
Dating in 2025 has enough uncertainties without adding ghosting to the mix. Once seen as a convenient escape route, ghosting is tired, lazy, and, outdated … Read On
In Defense of Slow Dating
Unlike swipe-based apps, slow dating is about depth and intention, encouraging trading quantity for quality—a counter-movement attuned to our busy lives … Read On
Dating Online and Realness
As any seasoned dater will affirm, presenting an honest, relatable version of yourself is not just a moral best practice but a distinct strategic advantage … Read On
How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic
A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On
Micro-Mancing: The New Dating Trend
Micro-mancing, an expected 2025 trend, is dating at a smaller, more digestible scale—a response to the overwhelming vastness of modern dating culture. … Read On
From Fumble to Fun
The awkward silences, spilled drinks, ill-timed jokes…but what if I told you that a date gone sideways may become the foundation for something profound … Read On
Navigating Holiday Dating Dilemmas
When navigating the early stages of a relationship, introducing a significant other to the family during the holidays may feel like walking a tightrope … Read On
It’s a Mind Thing
Beneath the surface of shy smiles and nervous laughter on a first date, there’s a more profound force at play—psychological factors that subtly guide you … Read On
NEW JOURNALS ON FOOD
How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic
A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On
Dream On: Dinner Date Puerto Vallarta
Forget run-of-the-mill tacos and margaritas—we’re embarking on a gastronomic journey into the crème de la crème of the local Puerto Vallarta dating scene … Read On
The Guerrilla Picnic Invasion
For first dates, a fine line exists between the memorable and the mundane. The guerrilla picnic is the perfect compromise of creativity and spontaneity … Read On
Yes, Chef!
For an unforgettable first date, the cooking class scene offers a gastronomic gladiatorial arena where culinary prowess becomes an ultimate aphrodisiac … Read On