A dating journal for the curious, FirstDate is a resource for those in pursuit of extraordinary connections. Because first dates should be easy. And fun.
10 Dating App Mistakes to Avoid
Why do so many of us feel stuck in a cycle of getting nowhere on our dating apps? Most often, it’s because of common mistakes that can easily be avoided … Read On
Shared Goals Over Shared Playlists
Too often, people mistake surface-level chemistry for a deep connection, only to realize they’re misaligned where it matters months later … Read On
The Timing Dilemma
When should you ask for the second date? Move too fast, and you risk appearing overeager. Wait too long, and the connection fades. What’s the right play? … Read On
See and Be Seen
From Mexico City to Cape Town, these top-tier restaurants deliver unforgettable vibes, impeccable menus, and an air of exclusivity for a first date … Read On
Futureproof Dating
There’s a delicate element to early dating conversations. When is it too soon to talk about the future on a first date, and how do you do it properly? … Read On
Ghosting Is Outdated
Dating in 2025 has enough uncertainties without adding ghosting to the mix. Once seen as a convenient escape route, ghosting is tired, lazy, and, outdated … Read On
How to Spot Real Interest (Without Overthinking)
Reading someone’s true intentions can feel like decoding a lost language. By focusing on subtle signs, you can do so with confidence and zero overthinking … Read On
In Defense of Slow Dating
Unlike swipe-based apps, slow dating is about depth and intention, encouraging trading quantity for quality—a counter-movement attuned to our busy lives … Read On
Dating Online and Realness
As any seasoned dater will affirm, presenting an honest, relatable version of yourself is not just a moral best practice but a distinct strategic advantage … Read On
NEW JOURNALS ON FOOD
See and Be Seen
From Mexico City to Cape Town, these top-tier restaurants deliver unforgettable vibes, impeccable menus, and an air of exclusivity for a first date … Read On
How to Order a Cocktail Without Sounding Basic
A thoughtfully chosen cocktail on your first date isn’t just an order; it’s a declaration. It says you’re willing to engage and open to shared discoveries … Read On
Dream On: Dinner Date Puerto Vallarta
Forget run-of-the-mill tacos and margaritas—we’re embarking on a gastronomic journey into the crème de la crème of the local Puerto Vallarta dating scene … Read On
The Guerrilla Picnic Invasion
For first dates, a fine line exists between the memorable and the mundane. The guerrilla picnic is the perfect compromise of creativity and spontaneity … Read On
